For my DEJ i’ll be responding to the article What are your values? Deciding what’s most important in life. Personal values form the basis of living a meaningful and authentic life. They help guide our choices, mold our behaviors, and describe the way we relate to the world. This article emphasizes finding and prioritizing our values. It says that when we act in accordance with our values, satisfaction and fulfillment are derived from such actions. Contrarily, when our actions and choices go against what is close to our heart, this situation may lead to discomfort, stress, or a sense of disequilibrium.

The process of defining values starts with reflecting on the moments of happiness, pride, and fulfillment. Through analyzing these experiences, we are able to identify what truly matters to us. Whether it is family, creativity, service, or independence, understanding these priorities gives a clearer sense of direction. The article wisely points out that values are not static; they change as we grow and encounter new life experiences. Regular reflection helps make sure our decisions keep in step with who we are becoming.

We also need to prioritize our values. In times of conflict or choice, knowing which one comes first can provide a clear sense of direction. For example, a decision between career advancement and family time is easier to make if we know which of these two best aligns with our core values.

Finally, it promotes integrity and confidence in ourselves by living our values. Sometimes this is not always easy, especially when our choices are unpopular or involve personal sacrifice. Yet staying true to our values means that we will lead a life that reflects who we really are, and will be happier in the long run, having more meaning in life.